Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Report of the activities held on April 3rd, 2014 at KDM Jakarta - Working on anger

 

April 3th, 2014 at KDM: workshop on anger, with the actress Indi

 

Trainers: Sara, Susanne, Indi, Benedetta, Mara

 

15 Kids joined:

The whole yellow class and 3 kids of blue class


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Green frog song;

The kids like the song, they all joined

Singing with 2 " voices" was difficult but with some practice we were able to perform it better.

 Explained the meaning of the song.

 

Circle of emotions: passing emotions on face in circle;

Anger: some of the kids started to laugh and they had difficulties passing the "angry face."

"Crying face"

"Laughing face": they loved it

 

Then emotion circle; "change"

You Can change the emotion you received

 

Introduction of Indi

 

Indi showed 4 emotions

Indi played an angry face to M., who just joined the group, and he wasnt understanding, and was scared and impressed. We tried to reassure him.

The Kids were all looking and listening very carefully. They seemed to be impressed.

Indi then displayed sadness.

 

Kids were really interested, they liked joining. Indi asked who wanted to act it out.

Indi explained the feelings in the body and the breathing process

 

J tried to act sadness: she focused on a sad event and then was very intense, until she was crying. She was really sad because she was not selected in the team going to Brazil. (Susanne believe this could be seen as her real emotion instead of the act of performing)


Then I tried acting pretending to be sad.... She didn't show too much facial expression...  she said she was disturbed in her focusing by the other kids chit-chat.

 

Indi explained a bit regarding the body-language: pointing with the finger when angry, open body when happy, closing when being shy.

M and M were not listening too much. 

 

J performed again: she was less expressive, compared to the first small play.

 

Circle; the kids imitated Indi: shy, impatient, angry, annoyed.

D guessed

 

We freely divided the kids in groups. 

They were told to make a drama on anger, like they did last week. 

First they did a rehearsal.

 

L wants to be with Sara again

Boys made a big group all together.

 

Group 1) Benedetta and Mara were angry.

Benedetta was protecting.

They were Fighting for a paper.

 

Group 2): J; 2 young boys fighting in Class.

J became angry (R, J, M)

 

Group 3)

I with the small girl;

Angry at a coloring girl (Febri)

 

Group 4) 2 boys, 1 girl, playing, running.

(S, F, A)

 

Group 5)

Boys group; lots of laughing... (D, S)


Group 6)

L and Sara:

They pretended to be mother and daughter.

The Mother was angry and she was shouting, L was beaten up by the mother.

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Break

 

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Singing accompanied by the guitar: they liked it 

 

Indi; circle of emotion: imitation of the emotion; copy Indi.

Happy, tired, hot, sticky. Scared for an animal...

They really liked and even yelled.

 

Indi talked about how to act in an angry way, showing the poster with the body shape on which they had written where they were feeling the anger one week ago.

D gets pain in belly when Angry.

E gets pain in His heart.

I in her head.

Em in her hand; She wants to hit.

Nanda; wants to hit

 

Depending on where you feel the emotion, is your behavior:  if you wish to stamp with your feet, or squeeze something in your hand.

 

Explained how to express your emotions: could be yelling, hitting the box-ball, hitting pillow...

 

J explained that she wanted to kick and subsequently she felt sick and she run throughout the room and she finally cried. 

 

Sara played music, kids walked around, when she stopped they had to greet the closest mate pretending to be: two cats, two presidents, Sotar and Ulie, mother and child, football champions.

 

Musica musica song.

 

End and goodbye.

 





Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Report of the activities held at KDM on March 27th, 2014 - Anger

Plan for March 27th at KDM


Workshop on anger 


Note:


Unfortunately three kids left the group.



 Trainers: Sara, Nancy, Natalia, Benedetta with Matteo and Pietro, Mara 

Kids:


Participants: 12 kids of the Yellow class

 

 Tools:

- Lyrics of the “green frog song” (Nancy)

- Shape of a body where the kids drew upon with markers (Nancy)

- Violin and guitar (Sara)

 

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 Warming up game:


1. Claps

Rules:

Double clap: reverse the direction

Say “BOEING while jumping: skip one person

5 min


The clap game went ok, including double clap (after we practiced a few times). Kids seemed to enjoy the game. But the 'Boeing jumping' part was a bit confusing.

We had to make it competitive in order to make it more challenging, but kids lost a bit their interest.

 


2. The little green frog song

5 min

After we explained the song, kids participated very well.

The gestures with the songs made them laugh.

 


3. Introducing Pietro and Matteo.

Kids had to guess where they’re from and then asked a few questions regarding their age, which school they attend, what they want to be in their future and so on.


4. Dance:

Angry dance along with music

1. In circle: it didn’t work

2. In couples: it worked better

 

5. Circle: discussion

Questions:

How do the kids feel now that some of their friends have left? What do they think?

 

• E: a bit happy, a bit sad

• A: sad

• N + T: too quiet

• T: they probably miss the streets

• A: maybe they quit because they didn’t like the way the staff waked them up in the morning

• E: There are many enemies on the streets. 

• T: she is afraid of what can happen on the streets. Some kids were even murdered. 

 

6. Drama about anger

15 min

 

group 1: E, R, A, T

T, R, A are students. E is an angry teacher. She sent R out of the classroom, but the other students protested telling her to go out herself, and eventually they all went out.


Feelings when angry: desire to punch, disappointment


group 2: I, L, Mara, Benedetta, Matteo 

I and L were fighting, Mara told them they shouldn't fight. She ended up fighting with Benedetta. The others try to stop them, Benedetta and Mara walked in the opposite directions one to each other.


Feelings: the body becomes stiff, disappointment, shaking, excitement, tension, aggressive behavior aroused, desire to kick/throw, punch


group 3: Sy, Pietro, De, S, E

Pietro is a staff member who tried to wake up the kids. But he did it roughly and all the kids are annoyed. They refused to wash; eventually they apologized to each other.


Feelings: aggressive behavior, desire to kick/hit, annoyed, shivering, desire to shout


Sy said he's never angry, the other kids protested.


group 4: Sara, L

L was writing. Sara passed by and grabbed L's pen. They fought about whose pen it is. (Actually, L said that this is a true story, happened with E who had claimed that the pen belonged to her, while L said that it never belonged to her - by the way, L arrived recently at KDM and she is not yet really integrated in the group: Sara noticed that some kids didn’t want to hold her hands while in circle, and that she feels a bit apart).


Feelings: shaking, heart beats fast, heavy feelings in body, feels stronger and desire to explode

 



8. Poster with outline body. 


Sara played twice Vivaldi’s Thunderstorm


- Asked them what emotion they had felt.


 Kids listened very carefully

Situations when angry:


• N: A girl made a comment and she wanted to hit her

• I: didn't know the answer to a question of one of her friend. Her friend got annoyed and he subsequently kicked a dog. I got angry


Then kids wrote/drew on the outline body what they had felt in their body when they had started to get angry


We had to give clearer instructions; kids sometimes don't understand what we want.


• E: painted the fingers: when she's angry she wants to punch

• I: drew fire on the head: he wants to punch someone in the head. He wants to cry.

• R: painted on the foot. When he’s angry he feels like kicking someone. 

• De: different scribbles on the stomach; they symbolizes a Stomach-ache

• T: painted on red the feet. She gets numb feeling in the feet.

• Di: blue scribbles on the stomach. He Gets hungry when angry.

• A: red scribbles on the shoulder. The shoulders start shaking

• Sy: green scribbles on the arm. (We couldn’t hear what he said)

• L: blue on the arm. She feels scared and shaky

• S: yellow on the hand

• N: blue on the hand .

• E: different scribbles on heart. He tells himself he has to be patient.

 

We noticed that most of the kids were still not fully aware of their body reactions when angry (breath, heartbeat, muscular tension), they mostly noticed only the body "reaction"  (desire to kick and/or to punch, were the most popular)


 

SNACK time


 

9 - The green frog 


We tried to teach the song better, but they still didn’t know it.

10 min

 

 10- Game on “accepting, ignoring or refusing” other people.

All the participants walked around within the room, randomly, and whenever a participant feels like it or when s/he meets somebody s/he could:


     - Open the arms and smile

     - Close the arms seriously

     - Look somewhere else ignoring who is in front of you

 

 A lot of giggling. Didn’t seem that the kids took it very seriously. But when we asked them their feelings they had shown a good understanding and awareness.

 

11- Game

Saying NO (Nga), while the partner says quietly YES.

They enjoyed it, even if they didn’t put too much intensity in the game.

 

12. Inner circle+ outer circle moved in opposite directions.

Sara played the guitar, when she stopped, the kids had to open their arms and say loud: ya!


Kids were very enthusiastic. A lot of hugs. Having music while doing exercises motivate them more.


13 – “Musica musica” song

5 min

 

They really liked singing musica musica, with the bass voice. They asked to do it again.


Saturday, March 29, 2014

Report of the activities held at KDM on March 13th, 2014

March 13th, 2014 - Report

 

Self-conscious feelings:

Blamed, uncovered, uncomfortable, hesitant, confident, dishonored, confused, exposed, satisfied, ashamed, fulfilled, awkward, humiliated, inhibited, special

 

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Kids: 12 kids of the Yellow class

 

Educators: Sara, Nancy, Susanne, Uli, Sotar,Jolande

 

Cello player: Christy Oscar

 

Materials:

- Guitar (Sara)

- Violin (Sara)

- 30 faces to be colored (Nancy)

- Sheets and pens and colors (Natalia)

- A ball/something funny to throw (Nancy)

 

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   Ask them to draw the faces according to their actual mood

5 min

 

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  Teach them the new song:

 

"dihina dan malu-malu  ragĂ¹-ragĂ¹ yakin  ragĂ¹-ragĂ¹yakin

dihina dan malu-malu ragĂ¹-ragĂ¹ yakin seganbingung

diper-malukan kikuk disalakhan puas yakin spesialpuas yakin spesial

diper-malukan kikuk disalakhan puas yakin spesialpuas yakin"

 

(Meaning: "humiliated and inhibited, hesitant, confident

humiliated and inhibited, hesitant, reticent, confused

dishonored, awkward, blamed, satisfied, confident, special

dishonored, awkward, blamed, satisfied, confident)

This is a way to teach them a wider vocabulary to express themselves.

 

The kids were a bit confused; they said: “it's difficult to follow.”

(But at the end they very much liked the song).

 

We then taught them how to breathe together.

10 min

 

Kids displayed more engagement during this exercise.

 

• quick Introduction of Christy quickly, and then she started playing Bach Bouree I and II.

 

Christy introduced herself and the kids askedquestions.

10-15 min

 

Everybody listened very carefully while Christy was playing. They observed every movement.

Especially Ar seemed absorbed into the music.

During the question round, they asked her many questions, from “how long she’s been practicing” to“how old she is” and “how long her education takes.”

 

Question: how violin and cello are different?

All kids were genuinely interested and they made remarks while asking questions. 

 

Christy, played Bach a second time, and thekids had to write/draw what they thought she was feeling.

5 min

 See attachments: drawings


All of them agreed there are parts in the music that are happy, sad, or even a bit scary.

 


° TANPA PERASAAN (Impassive game)

 

Christy played again and the kids had to try to distract her from her playing, but she had to continue.

2 min

 

In first place the kids were a bit shy, they didn't really know what to do. 

After a few minutes, especially when thier teacher Uli started to play too,  they started to have more fun, they moved in a circle around Christy in order to make funny faces. But they still looked awkward.

E and Al hid behind the tables, they didn't want to join.

 


  


 

   



 

5 min

 

° Song "Dihina..." with two voices (Canon)

Kids seemed to enjoy the song more now.

 

Sara played the song “Beautiful - Cherry Bell”, orJangan Menyerah, and subsequently she mademistakes, she apologized, and then we asked:“what is Sara feeling?”

(Ashamed, blamed, embarrassed, angry on myself)

And “what will she feel if she plays well and you all enjoy the music?

(Proud, happy, confident, special, fulfilled, etc.)

5 min

 

Kids observed carefully, they had fun to guess the feeling.

 

 

• One of the self-conscious feelings on the banner has been picked and they made a drama on something that happened to them.

 

 


We tried to divide them in three groups of 4 kids.

15 min

 

1. Al, E, De, L

E and L are a couple. Al comes in and chats. De throws stuff at E and L and he starts teasing them.

Show: feeling special (boy/girlfriend), confused (who's throwing things at them)

 

 

2. Ar, Di. T, Jolande

Ar, Di and T are the audience. Jolande is a pianist, but while she is playing the kids shouted and covered their ears. Jolande walked away embarrassed.

 

3. S, Sy, N, I

Sy and N sat on a bench

I and S checked the work they've done. Sy got a compliment, but N got shouted at.

They subsequently left, but I had forgot her phone.N took it and she hid it.

They checked Sy and N's pockets. N is very embarrassed.

 

 

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Sharing of 'shame' story

Talked about shame, and that you can laugh at yourself

Sara shared an ashamed situation with them and she explained how she had coped.

She asked Natalia or Sotar if they wanted also to share.

5 min

Sara, Sotar, Nancy shared a story. 

 

Relax in circle: remembering the feeling of pride; Associate a gesture to that feeling; when you feel discouraged or humiliated, recover the gesture and feeling of that moment.


De: When during a soccer match he made a good shot he got a compliment

 

 

 

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Ball and compliments game

5 min


E: smiled

Al: likes laughing

L: nice smile

S: funny

T: when they tease her she shouts

Nancy: likes laughing

Dian: expressive

Jolande: makes everyone happy

I: she's very welcoming, I remembered her name

Becky: likes playing with the little ones

N: beautiful smile

Uli: beautiful

Di: responsible

Sara: makes everyone happy

 

The session today was very intense and at the same time cheerful and participated.




Cellist miss Christy Oscar playing Bach for the kids, March 13th, 2014

The kids were drawing the emotions that they saw on miss Christy's face, while she was playing Bach.

Monday, March 24, 2014

Video by UNTV on the project is online!

The video shooted by the United Nations television is online!

http://www.unmultimedia.org/tv/21stcentury/detail/3372855121001.html